Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,
Family dynamics can be very interesting and complex especially around holidays. I remember as a child and youth how very important it was to visit aunts and uncles and cousins to see their tree and to imbibe on the goodies that each household was noted for and then receive family in our home. This mutual and reciprocal visiting took about two weeks and pretty much ended up in exhaustion. Perhaps selfishly I just wanted to stay home and run my trains that my father had so meticulously set up around the tree. Nonetheless it was good to connect with relatives one might see only once or twice a year. The same may well have been true for our Lord and His cousin John the Baptist.
Certainly they knew each other. After all, John leapt in his mother’s womb (St. Elizabeth) when Mary came to visit and attend to her cousin. And through the years when the Holy Family, after their return from Egypt, would make pilgrimage to Jerusalem the cousins would be in contact with one another. We might wonder about what they talked about, what were their “plans”, hopes and desires? But as they matured the plan of the Father became absolutely clear. John assumed his role as herald and Jesus ,of course, as Savior. But John must have had somewhat of a crisis of faith: “If my cousin is the long-awaited Messiah, what am I doing here in prison?” The perplexing WHY. It is the same conundrum that faces all of us. We ask ourselves: “why, if I am a faithful follower of Jesus, do unfortunate things happen to me?” We want an answer but most often none comes. How, then, do we deal with it? That’s where faith and trust are put to the test. Is it easy? No. Is it necessary? Yes. Once we accept the fate of where we are knowing that all is under God’s loving vision an interior peace pervades our being. Hope then conquers despair and like John and others we let His will be done.
With Blessings,
Father Langan
